Coming home to yourself – Reconnecting to those missing parts!

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A reminder that the content of the blog and the newsletter is the same, no need to read both:)

Hi Folks,

This blog/newsletter is all about parts this week. They are such an important part of us and of the work we do with our clients.

I hope you’re enjoying Autumn? We are having wonderful colours here in the UK, probably because of the warm summer and I’m so enjoying being out in the colour, smelling that unique Autumn smell. I’m sure I can tell which season it is with my eyes closed, just because of the smell, the child part of me just loves jumping in leavers and collecting conkers and acorns. I always have a plate of autumn leaves and berries on my desk at this time of year, it reminds me of how magical this world is:)

I’ve just had a lovely week with a friend from the States, visiting beautiful places, tapping as we travelled.:) This is me in Eton, by the river. IMG_3922

I feel so lucky living this life I’ve created. I get to have fun with friends and then I get to have fun with work, a win/win situation:) (and the part that thinks it’s not OK to have so much fun, I send love and acceptance to and it settles down and allows me to have my fun! )

This week I’m planning for the rest of the year. I’ve just done a video on Coming Home to yourself – Reconnecting with the missing parts of you, which is the title of my Presentation at the EFT Gathering in York, 30/31st January.

I’m really looking forward to it as EFT Gatherings are very special. It’s a wonderful community and I get to reconnect with old friends and make new ones, even while I’m finding out what people are doing with their EFT. It’s a great source of inspiration, (and hugs:) ) All my inner children are jumping up and down just at the thought of it:)

This weekend I’m going on a Samhain retreat in deepest darkest Lancashire. I’m wondering if the outdoor compost loos will be as much fun in November as they were in May! I think I’ll have to work on a reframe for that somehow. Something to encourage the part of me that would much rather the loo was in the warm cabin.

Then on the 7th November it’s my ever popular workshop   P1020737

Working with Parts and the Inner child.

Those who have seen me work, or watched my videos will know that this is an integral part of the way I work. It makes such a difference to results for clients and it can be integrated so easily, in a conversational way that allows the client to be in an empowered place, to make changes.

If you’d like to explore this work in depth and clear your own deep “stuff” come and join the group on the 7th November. You’ll have a lot of fun while you clear and you’ll get to reconnect to all those younger parts of you that need some love and understanding.:)

And on the grandchild front, s/he is in position and the room is ready. I’ve finished the rabbit I was knitting and nearly finished the blanket, so any time now!! The due date is 6th November, but you know babies, they have a will of their own:)IMG_3928

Have a wonderful week, whatever your parts are up to and I hope we get to connect soon:)

With love from Jacqui

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Trusting yourself and a very special offer for you :)

A reminder that the content of the blog and the newsletter is the same, no need to read both:)

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Hi Folks,

I’m just back from the AMT conference in Eastbourne. I do love EFT gatherings, you meet so many lovely people there and this time I had a bonus and was the demo for Tamara Donn on her session EFT and Family Constellations. It was so powerful I had to go and sleep afterwards!! I love how so many different ways of working blend with EFT.

Deborah Donndelinger from the States is presenting on Family energetics at the EFT Gathering in York In January, so that’s another opportunity to find ways to work with family “stuff.”:)

It’s a really great lineup at the Gathering this year, (and it’s in my favourite city York!) and international too:) apart from Deborah there’s Kris Ferraro from the US and Yvonne Toeset from the Netherlands and a whole bunch of interesting people from the UK. If you’d like to join us, check out what’s on offer.

My presentation in Eastbourne was on “Trusting yourself.” It went well in spite of dropping a tea bag right down my front seconds before I started!! If anyone knows how to get tea out of linen, please let me know, vanish doesn’t work!

In fact 2 people told me my use of EFT was exquisite!! You can imagine how great that felt:)

I love sharing my work with people who will take it and use it to make a difference for their clients, so when I present, I aim to help people clear whatever is in their own way and also share ways of working that they can use.

Trusting yourself is so important, both as a therapist as in our lives. We start out knowing who we are and why we’re here and then we see what people around us are doing and saying and we get confused. We end up with conflict inside us between what we know and what we think others know and part of us believes that the big people must know best, because they always tell us that!!

So we start to doubt ourselves and our abilities. EFT can help us to let go of all the stuff we picked up from our ancestors, in the womb and before and also unfinished stuff from past lives. When we clear that, it’s so much easier to clear what’s going on for us right now and begin to connect again to the beauty of who we really are. That’s what happens for our clients when we have a good session and it’s what we can gift ourselves, so that we can share that in our client sessions and with the people in our lives.

Here’s a tapalong on trusting ourselves

I’m so excited about the new series of EFT Expert online Masterclasses, starting on 22nd October.

And now, here’s a special offer, just for the people who read my newsletter or blog, because I know how dedicated you are to being the best you can be 🙂

From now until Sunday evening the 18th October, midnight in the UK, I’m going to offer you the chance of taking these classes for £449 for the whole series, a reduction of £100, or £95 for each, rather than £125, if you take them singly.

I already have feedback about the difference it’s made to people who have done them and how it’s changed their clients experience.

From a client to someone who took these classes “I’ve had such a wonderful 24 hours since our EFT session yesterday, it’s been better than I could have ever hoped or expected. That sense of strength and peace and happiness I felt by the end of our session has stayed with me every moment since, and I can already see it spreading to the people around me! It’s such a contrast to the dark, stressful depression I was living in day after day – I can’t thank you enough for your help and support.”

From a client “Thanks so much for Wednesday’s session, it was really incredible and has already been life changing- it’s like we dug up the roots on Weds and the whole dandelion plant had been weeded out in just one day!” 

From a therapistI warm to your style of making things normal and conversational, rather than e.g. a slightly stilted formal parts process. 

From a therapist “I was really surprised how much sense this made for me and it has rocketed me on a journey that I would not have expected.”

I look forward to connecting with you whenever we do and meanwhile, have a good week and trust yourself to be enough….you always are:)

22.10.15 EFT Expert toolkit – Masterclasses online – EFT and Timelines

 Working with parts and the inner child – Masterclass Live Learn how to relax and connect with your clients inner children and the rebel and the scared parts, in a simple, conversational, non threatening way. It can be so easy, come and find out how.

30/31st January 2016 EFT Gathering in York

And of course if you’d like to work with me 1 to 1, email me at Jacqui@jacquicrooks.com

With love from

Jacqui

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Clearing SAD syndrome, enjoying the Autumn

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Hi Folks,

First of for those of you who receive the blog and the newsletter, this is to let you know that I’ve decided to put the same info in each for now, to see how that works. For months I’ve been trying to decide what to write on which and working out who reads what and then I had the brilliant idea that if it’s the same on both, you get to read it whichever comes your way and you don’t have to click over to anything at all! Phew, what a relief, I hear you say:)

It certainly takes the guesswork out of it for me and you only have one thing to read. I’m hoping it’ll prove to be a win/win situation.:)

And I wonder what is is about me and newsletters at the moment, this was ready to go yesterday, I tried to add an extra picture and the whole lot froze and I lost it! Mmm more tapping I think!!

So… back to business….

The weather has changed here overnight. We’ve had a wonderful week or 2 with perfect autumn weather. Cool mornings, warm and sunny days and magnificent colour. As we had a warm summer, the tree colours are wonderful.

I was driving through the grey drizzle today, watching the trees thrashing in the wind and leaves whirling down and I realized yet again what a beautiful world we live in, whatever the weather.

It reminded me that many years ago, I used to suffer from SAD syndrome, the depression that comes with lower levels of light and I sorted it with EFT and it’s obviously still working!

I taped on how I felt on grey days and then I tapped on how I felt on sunny days and then I tapped to tell my subconscious that I wanted to have the sunny day feeling, even on the grey days. So simple and it works:)

I remember at the time suddenly realizing that I would be halfway through a day before it dawned on me that it was grey. It felt so wonderful to be able to keep my usual optimistic self in place whatever the weather was doing:)

I thought I’d do a video tapalong on changing those feelings, so you can ride the season’s changes more easily. And I accidentally found out how to add the video without you clicking on a link!! Hurray, maybe I’m finally getting the hang of technology!!

It truly is a beautiful world when we allow ourselves to notice it.

I’m really excited to be getting ready to launch the new round of the

EFT Expert Toolkit – EFT masterclasses Online on the

22nd October.

This is a way for those of you who can’t get to the live workshops to learn all the things that I teach. I’ve set it up so that you can feel part of a community. You can connect with other participants in a facebook group to share ideas and experiences and maybe find tapping buddies. You will have email support from me and there will be chance to ask questions. At the end there will be a tapping session to clear any blocks you may have to using what you’ve learned, so that you’re in a good place to move forward.

I’m offering it as a complete package, though for those of you who just want a particular session, you can have that too, you just don’t get the bells and whistles with it:)

If you want to check out the possibilities, here they are.

I had a lovely time at the weekend on the Language for change workshop and for those of you who are interested, the next one is

7th November Working with Parts and the Inner Child

This work is essential in any EFT session and I love to make it seamless and effortless. It works so much better for you and your clients that way.

In this workshop you will learn how to:-

  • Take the client back to early times when they felt the same feelings that they feel now.
  • Work with the client at the age they were then, to clear the initial trauma.
  • Include any other time that they felt those feelings, into the healing.
  • Work with the parts of the client that don’t want to change, or are afraid to change.
  • Listen for the “yes but’s” and the “what if’s” that can keep the client stuck.
  • Include the possibility of clearing past life issues in a sentence.

“I LOVE the easy effortless way you integrate parts!”

I may see some of you at the AMT conference in Eastbourne this weekend.

If you see me please come up for your free hug:)

 And don’t forget the EFT Gathering in York 30/31st January.

There’s some great speakers, (including me:) ) and more free hugs to be had. I do think EFTer’s give the best hugs. IMG_3812

with love from

Jacqui

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What a wonderful World! (when you’re kind to yourself:) )

What a wonderful world!

I’ve just been driving through the beautiful autumn countryside, seeing all the colours of Autumn creeping through and now I’m sitting at my desk looking out at the garden, which is full of the last flowering of plants with the apples shining like lights on the tree and I’m just so full of joy and gratitude for this wonderful world of ours and so grateful to be here and enjoying it.

My new regime of giving myself space and listening to myself is paying off. I finally have non- negotiable time for myself every morning, (and yes, sometimes I have to get up early to do that and that means earlier nights, which also feel good:) ) I was prompted by reading Rebecca Campbell’s book, Light is the new black. I met her a while ago and her energy is amazing.:)

I spend some time just breathing, into my belly, pause, out again, pause and surprisingly I found that it made a difference when I walk, I have more breath when I go up hills!

I journal. I’ve always found that I get so many insights when I just write about what’s going on in my life and often I get the solutions too. It feels like I give space for my higher self and source to get through to me.

I ask for help from my higher self, source, guides and angels, something I’ve not been very good at doing, so I must have cleared some of my “ I have to do it on my own,” stuff, which feels good.

I breathe in the light and energy of source and imagine it clearing out anything that’s not for my highest good, from my chakras, my bodies, my aura, my cells and if the sun’s shining, I can imagine it as the light from source and that really helps:)

Lots of simple things, that don’t take a great deal of time, but I feel so much more connected to myself by doing them and that’s what it’s really all about. Whatever we’re not happy about in our lives comes down to our lack of connection to ourselves and of course to source. If I’m unhappy about something, part of me is making it mean something about me and that means that I’m not connected to my real, complete self, I’m connecting to a part of me, often very much younger, that created a belief as a means of survival in difficult times. It means that I can’t see the bigger picture, I can’t connect to my current resources and life becomes difficult. Taking time to connect to your real self, that eternal shining being, gives you a more helpful perspective and a chance to use the tools you’ve gained over your life. Life becomes so much easier. You may not be able to change a situation, but when you change how you feels about it, everything changes. And it’s not about getting mad with the part of you that was so under resourced it’s about loving it and all the shadow side of yourself.

YOU ARE DOING THE VERY BEST YOU CAN ……. ALWAYS!

So be gentle with yourself. Celebrate who you are and where you are. Allow yourself to enjoy the world in whatever way works for you. Bless yourself, you’re doing such a great job of living your life, in your unique way, and that’s what you chose to be here for:)

Here’s a tapalong for you on being gentle with yourself:)

May your week be wonderful and may you let your light shine, just that little bit more than usual:)

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With love from Jacqui

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If you’d like to work with me, here are some ways of doing that:)

One to one sessions

3.10.15 Language for change – EFT Masterclass

22.10.15 Creating an EFT Expert Toolkit, Online training.

10/11th October AMT Conference Eastbourne

30/31st January EFT Gathering in York

When the conflict goes you’re back in the flow!

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Hi Folks,

If you read last weeks blog you’ll know that I was clearing conflict between 2 parts of me that were trying to keep me safe in different (and very conflicting!)  ways.

I thought I’d share with you the difference it made. Suddenly I had more clarity about how I wanted my life to be. I remembered the things that light me up and recharge me and did MUCH more of them.:)

I not only finished knitting a bunny for the new grandchild due in November, I bought stuffing for it and some beautiful cashmere and merino wool to make it a blanket! I’m planning on signing up for some knitting classes, as I’m really self taught and basic and I’d like to do things that are interesting. I’m even sorting out my projects cupboard that’s stuffed with all the things I started and didn’t finish, to decide what excites me enough to start again and to tidy it so I can find those things!!

I seem to have won myself a lot of time. I’ve been going to bed early and getting up early, and allowing myself space in the morning for journalling and breathing.

Suddenly it feels as though I’ve got my life back again and of course, it was only me who let it go in the first place:)

It was a really good reminder to me that when things start to get out of kilter it’s time to take a look at what’s going on, clear the things that are stopping you being in the flow and then go out and live your life more joyfully, focusing on really being in the moment.

I was at the seaside in Staithes in Yorkshire at the weekend, it’s one of my favourite places and I had such a great time just pottering, doing what felt good and meeting interesting people. It’s so great how soul connections pop up everywhere when you’re connected to yourself. I spent time hunting for fossils and watching hermit crabs in the rock pools and walking and even went whale watching, (no whales though, just a very curious seal:) ).

Here’s a tapalong about giving yourself permission to be you and do what excites you.

And if I can be any help in resolving any conflict that your parts might be experiencing, let me know and we can do a session together. jacqui@jacquicrooks.com

Or you could join us on 3rd October at the next EFT masterclass Live, which is “Using Language for Change”. There you’ll get to clear your own deep stuff while you learn new tools. We had such fun on the last workshop and here’s what one attendee said, ” I thought I was coming to gain a tool but I see I’m going to gain so much more than that :-) Bless you for a wonderful day and I look forward to sharing the next sessions with you and the others.”

Have fun with your week and may you go with the flow:)

With love from

Jacqui

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Happiness is …….

………different things to different people.

And that’s true. One person can be happy watching an opera, another by walking in IMG_3680the country, someone else by cooking for their family, someone else by stroking a cat and I’ve been thinking about what is underneath all of these activities that create happiness.

 

 

I believe that under all the activities, what’s really going on for us is that we’re connecting to ourselves and to something greater than ourselves. Whether you call that God, the universe, higher energies I see it as something that is “more than” I am alone.

I’m part of it and it’s part of me and doing something that uplifts me, makes me happy, allows me to connect to that “more than” part of me.

It’s the bright and shiny part, as one of my friends says,:) the golden soul that’s who you are eternally and when we’re connected to that, the world seems brighter, things flow more easily and we shine and spread that happiness around us.

And sometimes we find we just don’t do the things that make us happy and that’s down to old training, rules we’ve created and the “stuff” that comes from family and society.

And the good news is we have the tools to let go of that “stuff”, so we can do more of the “stuff “that makes us happy! Aren’t we lucky!

I went to a group last week, based on happiness and what I realised was how handicapped people are when they don’t have the tools to make changes, to let go of old feelings and beliefs. We truly are blessed to have this wonderful EFT tool in our lives.

It’s why I created my Masterclass trainings Live and Online.

I help people to clear the “stuff” that’s in the way of their shine in weeks rather than months or years and I do it safely.

The more people who shine, the more we get to connect to the shine, and the more we shine, the more others do too. It’s a cascade of good feelings and the world needs that.

Meanwhile, you could look out for happiness ideas coming your way and notice the things in your life that make you happy and do more of them and tap if you find you don’t:)

And here’s a tapalong on happiness

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And if you want your own burst of positivity why not come and join us for the first of the Masterclass workshops this Saturday, 12th September Getting to the real roots of an issue easily – EFT and Timelines – only 2 spaces left!

You’ll connect to a great group of people, learn a lot about how to make your EFT even more effective and you’ll get to clear a lot of your own stuff too. We have a lot of fun and bond into a really loving and supportive group.

Registration for the September Masterclasses online is now closed and there will be a new group starting on 8th October. If you had planned to join us and then missed out this time, please book early to save your place, they go fast 🙂

And of course you can always book a one to one with me, That will increase your happiness:) (and mine!) jacqui@jacquicrooks.comIMG_3664

 

With love from Jacqui

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Lighthouses don’t go running all over the island……

 

 


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“Lighthouses don’t go running all over the island, looking for boats to save.

They just stand there shining”

Ann Lamott

What a perfect quote. Doesn’t it just say it all? I was talking about being a lighthouse to a client the other day and of course, I was saying it for me too. (Don’t you love how your clients help you to learn:) )

I realised that although I know my job is to be me, to shine as brightly as I can, I still get caught up in the old rescuing pattern from time to time and I was doing that in a couple of areas of my life right now. Isn’t it amazing how it just sneaks up on you? One minute you are shining brightly, the next you’re running after those boats and guess what? Those boats are running at least as fast as you are:) you’re never going to catch them and even if you did, they’ll just keep running. Shining is your thing, they may have a different agenda, a different life path and it’s not for you to tell them they’re wrong.

If you are truly embodying you, if you are creating and living your life in a way that supports you, helps you to grow, then you can’t help but shine and in shining, you are inviting others to do the same.

Whether they decide to or not, is none of your business! You are your business and they are their business. It may not be what we were taught as children and it’s still the truth. You can’t make anyone change if they don’t want to and maybe, just maybe, they know what’s best for them in this life. It might not make sense to you, but to a part of them it does.

The most useful thing you can do for them is to shine your own light, wish them well and trust that all is as it should be, trust them to do what is right for them and trust you to know what is right for you (and then tap on any frustration because they just won’t do it your way 🙂 )

Have fun this week, shining your light. If you weren’t responsible for rescuing anyone this week, what would you be doing? Can you invest that energy in yourself? Allow you to shine even more brightly? I’d love to hear how it goes:)

And if you could use a hand in clearing old patterns that are hanging in there, book a session and we’ll get to the root and clear it.

Or join me on the 10th September for EFT Masterclasses online or 12th September for EFT Masterclasses live to learn even more effective ways to use EFT and clear that backlog of your own stuff while you learn:)

Foe those of you new to EFT, there’s also an Introduction to EFT live on the 11th September.

Please pass the dates on to anyone you think might be interested:)

And don’t forget The AMT conference in Eastbourne, where I’ll be talking about Trusting yourself.

And the EFT Gathering in York, where I’ll be talking about Coming Home to Yourself.

These conferences/gatherings are a wonderful way to connect to the EFT community, while seeing what others are doing with EFT. You always leave feeling inspired and uplifted (and of course there’s all the hugs:)

Take wrong turns, talk to strangers:)

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“Take wrong turns. Talk to strangers. Open unmarked doors. And if you see a group of people in a field, go find out what they are doing. Do things without always knowing how they’ll turn out”.   Randall Munroe

Isn’t this a wonderful quote? The essence of living from love and curiosity, rather than from fear.

Those are the things we’re told NOT to do as children and so we stifle ourselves, keep ourselves small because of someone else’s fear.

Where does that come from? From other peoples lives, other times. Times that were different to ours, where starvation, attack, losing all you love was the reality and the trauma of those times gets passed down to us in many ways.

We’ve always known that the fears get passed down by the things that the people around us say and do and now new research at New York’s Mount Sinai hospital with holocaust survivors shows that  trauma is also passed down in the genes. These are things we may have thought were true, but how great to see the scientific evidence for it.

Does that mean we’re stuck with all that fear? Not at all. It is possible to make changes to our feelings and our beliefs right now and as we do, we change the neural pathways in our brains and I believe we also change the genes that are switched on and the way those genes express themselves. If they can be changed by trauma, it follows that they can be changed by the release of trauma.

The limitations that were in place for our ancestors are often no longer relevant for us in 2015 and for the lives that we’re living now and when we release them, we are opening ourselves to creating new beliefs and feelings that are appropriate for who we are and where we are right now! Hurray for Tapping!! We are so lucky to have the skills and understanding that we have now, that weren’t available, even to our parents generation.

It’s time to start again, from where you are now and to create the beliefs and feelings that will support you living the life you want to live now. What a gift to the world that would be:)

And here’s a tapalong to get you started:)

There are so many ways you can use EFT to get you started on a new journey and the courses I’ve created are my way of offering help and possibilities to those who want to live life differently and maybe to help others live their life differently too.

They teach simple and new techniques that help you to get to the heart of what’s keeping you stuck. They teach unique ways of working to create deep and lasting change.

Not only will you finish with a brand new shiny set of tools, but you’ll know how to use them and you’ll have used them to make those changes in your own life. It’s such a win/win. You learn and clear your own stuff at the same time and if you choose to go down that route, you can also become an EFT Expert Practitioner.

10th September EFT Masterclasses online – Your EFT expert Toolkit

11th September Introduction to EFT – Live workshop

12th September EFT Masterclasses Live – becoming an EFT Expert

Unfinished Past life business and being compassionate to yourself

IMG_0056Isn’t it amazing this work? What a joy to have the power to clear the stuff that gets in our way and of course what brings it up best of all is relationships:)

“Stuff” came up last week for me and I realized that the amount of triggering going on meant that there were a lot of aspects and that they mostly didn’t belong in the present. Generally I find that what goes on now has it’s roots in the past and to clear it properly, the past is where we need to go.

That’s why I developed the Clearing the Ancestral patterns work and the Rebirthing, it makes a huge difference to clients when you can clear that deep stuff first.

I worked with a colleague Sylvia Jackson 

And we got into all sorts:) Stuff I’d not thought of for years and stuff I thought I’d cleared, (funny how that happens isn’t it:) I think it’s just aspects we couldn’t reach earlier,) and of course a lot of it wasn’t mine in the first place, it belonged to my mother and grandmother and probably went back for centuries.

In addition there seemed to be some unfinished past life business going on. Although I don’t talk about past lives to clients unless they mention them, there are ways of using language to clear them, even if you don’t know what they are, without interfering with your clients belief system. ( I teach that as part of the EFT Expert Masterclasses live and Online.)

I personally think that we come in with work to do based on past lives, ancestral survival strategies and what we model from those around us.

In this session, it seemed there were 6 of us linked in this life that had old unfinished business from other lives. As we cleared the unfinished business, I found myself able to reconnect to the resourceful, loving and compassionate self that I like to be. I was able to see people as they are, rather than the enemy:) and I could see me clearly too, with all the light and shadow that is me. Most importantly I was able to feel compassion for me. For the things I’ve been through in my life and for how I’ve responded.

It’s where healing starts, compassion for ourselves. All the blame in the world that we put out there to others, is just a reflection of what we’re feeling about ourselves. When you can love yourself, even just a little bit more each day, we find we can love others too and the world looks a happier place. We’re in an upward spiral and that adds to the joy in the world.

If you need help in finding love and compassion for yourself or those around you, why not book a session with me Jacqui@jacquicrooks.com and clear the stuff that you’re carrying that isn’t yours and then the stuff that is:) Or you could join me on the EFT Expert Masterclasses Live and clear while you learn. They are a lot of fun, you get to connect to lovely people and you learn while you clear your own deep stuff. The things taught on this course are not taught anywhere else and you will indeed be an expert when you’ve integrated them into your work and then you can have fun refining them and making them your own, in your own unique way.

Here’s a Tapalong on clearing past lives 

 Coming soon.

10th September EFT Expert Masterclasses Online

11th September Introduction to EFT Live

12th September EFT Expert Masterclasses Live

With love from Jacqui

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Kicked by a bean!!

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As you may know, I’ll be a Grannie in November. It’s so exciting and when Reema my daughter in law visited last week I had a word with him or her:) They don’t want to know the sex, but there’s definitely a feeling that he’s a boy and probably a footballer, though I guess she could be a girl tap dancer:)

Anyway , Little Bean as the baby is known is very shy. (S)he doesn’t co operate with scans, so it’s difficult to see him/her and when you put your hand on her/him while (s)he’s kicking (s)he stops.

 

A wriggly Bean kicking during the scan:)

I’d done some surrogate tapping for her/him a few days before, after (s)he had a fright, and I really wanted to connect with him/her, so I said “This is Grannie Jacqui, it would be lovely if you could kick me to say hello, ” and (s)he did. there was a moment of thinking about it and then a kick straight into my hand and a few wriggles for good measure. It was so lovely to feel that life there, preparing to come out and live in the world.

The he/she conundrum reminds me of working with clients when they say, ” I was supposed to be a boy (or girl) and I was a disappointment” “I wasn’t supposed to be who I am.”

We’re so lucky that we can use EFT to clear emotions and beliefs right back from the time in the womb and it’s great that I know about the problems it can cause so that we can tell Little Bean that he/she is loved and welcomed whatever sex or character (s)he is.

If you are having a baby, or know someone who is, think about what would be really helpful for them to know. Share it with them. They will connect with you and that understanding will be with them when they’re born. What a gift:)

It’s never too late to make changes for yourself either. If your birth was less than perfect, if you picked up limiting beliefs based on what was going on for you, you can use EFT to clear what doesn’t work and give yourself new information that will be useful for you.

I explain and demonstrate how in my Rebirthing yourself, Rebirthing your children DVD and you could experience it for yourself In the Masterclass live series, or the Masterclasses online, both starting in September. You could even book a session with me and go through it one to one.

This work makes a huge difference to people. Life really does change when you’re no longer carrying those old mistaken beliefs and when part of you knows that you are always in the right place at the right time, with the right people, doing the right thing.

As David Hamilton say, “You can only do it right.” and what a relief it is when we believe it:)

Here’s a tapalong to remind ourselves that we didn’t have all the information that we needed to make the decisions we made about ourselves, when we were born and that it’s ok to let them go now.

And if you had problems connecting to the tapalong in last weeks blog, here’s the link again. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GjSPHeYuOPM (full link as the hyperlink still seems not to work)

If you’d like to join me on my workshops or program, here are the dates.

10.09.15 EFT masterclasses Online – Creating an EFT Experts tool kit  A unique online Program to teach you all that I use with my clients, With support from me and the others in the group you’ll learn a lot and there is the option to  become an EFT Expert Practitioner.

11.09.15 Introduction to EFT For those with little or no experience of EFT. This can be combined with the EFT Masterclasses, to become an EFT Expert practitioner, or to enhance your EFT skills

12.09.15 EFT Masterclasses Live – Becoming an EFT Expert These workshops are unique, no one else is teaching this. You get to clear your own deep stuff while you learn and there is an option to become an EFT Expert Practitioner too.